AS SEEN IN ROXANE GAY'S ThE Audacity

Proud Flesh

A Memoir of
Motherhood, Intimate
Violence, and
Reclaiming Pleasure

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A searing portrait of a mother’s body—a resurrection and reclamation of pleasure after abuse, a study of intergenerational trauma, and a love letter to the bodies of women: as alive and unbound as the teeming Mississippi wilds that bear witness.

Proud Flesh rewrites the body of the mother beyond the borders—bold, defiant, and heart-stoppingly true, it’s an unputdownable memoir and a force of nature.

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Praise for Proud Flesh

—KIMBERLY ANN JOHNSON, AUTHOR OF THE FOURTH TRIMESTER & THE CALL OF THE WILD

—MOLLY CARO MAY, AUTHOR OF BODY FULL OF STARS

—KARA HOPPE, AUTHOR OF BABY BOMB

—ABIGAIL ROSE CLARK, AUTHOR OF RETURNING HOME TO OUR BODIES

“I could not put this book down. Poetic. Nuanced. Compelling. Smart. Metaphors dripping with sounds and smells. I was drawn in by so much and especially by Gray's unabashed and raw voice. She draws us close as she finds a new map for herself and lays bare a fresh vibrant narrative for mothers, women and anyone who has dared to fully look at the scars of the past.”

“Proud Flesh is a courageous and raw memoir that follows one woman’s journey to take back her body and her story…Her powerful yet poetic prose weaves together the lessons of a painful past and the promise of a more whole future, creating a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Gray demonstrates that, regardless of what society may have thrown at her, trauma need not define or determine a woman’s life course. A must-read for anyone seeking a brave exploration of womanhood and healing.”

“Catherine Simone Gray grabbed me from the first line of Proud Flesh. With writing that is brutal and beautiful, she writes of motherhood and womanhood, and beyond that, of personhood, in ways that are cutting and gorgeous. It is a book that has kept me in its spell, and I want to put it in the hands of everyone I know. Please read this book.” 

“Erotic, heart-rending, unexpected, courageous, breathtaking…As someone who works with women healing from birth injuries, I am so grateful to have this book to refer women to. Not only is this book an artistic victory, Proud Flesh has deeply healing potential for any mother who is feeling isolated and alone after birth, as most women are these days. I am so thrilled that my clinical and community forging work will have this soulful artistic companion. This book pressed itself into me, and I will be recommending it for years to come.”

is for:

+ mothers making sense of who they are and what their needs are now

+ survivors of sexual violence reclaiming their
 lives, bodies, and power

+ ANYONE WHO identified with the #MeToo movement 

+ AnYONE interested in feminist/womanist memoirs and reproductive health

+ caregivers of Boys wanting to cultivate a more expansive, tender masculinity in your sons or beloved boys in your life

+ Anyone Wanting to cultivate a new, affirming relationship with your body and sexuality 

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PROUD FLESH

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Catherine Simone Gray

Catherine Simone Gray is a writer and teacher. Her writings on motherhood and healing first appeared on her blog Unsilenced Woman, where her piece about teaching her son consent reached 2.5 million around the world. Featured by Roxane Gay in The Audacity’s Emerging Writer Series, her work has also appeared in The Bitter Southerner and the Michigan Quarterly Review: Mixtape. Gray is the recipient of a literary arts fellowship with the Mississippi Arts Commission.

With over a decade of experience as a writing teacher to people aged eight to eighty, she holds a master of arts in curriculum and instruction. She leads writing circles for women, mothers, and caregivers, exploring how writing can be an ally in our living and loving.

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Proud Flesh is a memoir that reckons with the questions "what happens when survivors become mothers?"

 And "what if we give half the attention to understanding our pleasure as we have to our pain?"

proud Flesh resources

Rooting in Community

Proud Flesh Conversation Guide

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Rooting Within

Proud Flesh Journal Prompts (audio and pdf version)

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Rooting Far and Wide

Proud Flesh Conversation Circle with Catherine 

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book Release Events

FEB. 23
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4:00 - 5:30 pm PT / 6:00 - 7:30 CT
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Writing as a Pathway to Pleasure: A virtual workshop with Kimberly Ann Johnson, sexological bodyworker and author of The Fourth Trimester

FEB. 25

4:30 pm signing | 5:30 reading
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Proud Flesh Launch Event at Lemuria Books in Jackson, Mississippi

APRIL 26

9:30 am - 11:30 am
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Mothers Writing + Kids Creating: A free writing workshop for mothers and caregivers, with childcare and art-making for children also provided

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"My body could say things that my voice couldn’t, truths I wasn’t ready to understand. "

Thank you to
the Mississippi Arts Commission
for their generous grant
to support Proud Flesh.

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